Waiting: The Dilemma of the MIA Wife

Abstract

Abstract : The reaction of wives to prolonged absence of a husband still classified as missing in action was investigated. Group discussions with the wives were conducted and feelings about their husbands' absence, their personal and emotional adjustment, and their perceptions of their children's adjustment were examined. Findings indicated that although most of the women had serious concerns for their children's welfare, experienced difficulties establishing their own identities, and were hesitant to admit to themselves the possibility that their husbands may never return, all were acutely aware that life must go on and many had made tremendous strides in adapting to a new lifestyle.